Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

So you recently told a follower who said long term denial was making her depressed she should come, “unless it’s a punishment.” Don’t you think of a dom is giving a punishment that negatively affects the sub’s mental health, that’s a problem? Would you carry out that sort of punishment yourself? That seems like crossing a line between kink and abuse.

Good follow up question, thanks anon. This post is what anon is referring to: http://edging.space/post/172596379325/i-was-recently-given-3-days-of-no-touch-instead […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James I’m new here. I’m on day six and I’m really enjoying it… When I’m worked up. When I’m not, I feel like shit. I dated someone who would berate and shame me for masturbating and was emotionally and sexually abusive. I hoped that consensual denial with my current partner would help me work through some of that, and also help with my anorgasmia, but having my autonomy removed with fear of punishment is really triggering sometimes, even if it was my idea and my choice. I feel suck.

Firstly well done for trying it after that difficult start.  It’s always challenging finding what […]