So this isn’t really a question, just wanted to say I love your blog very very much! And I also had a little tip type thing… So at one point you recommended using bengay for teasing and such and I was fascinated but have very sensitive skin and was worried about what that might do to me, so on and so forth. But one thing I discovered for a tingly, temperature sensation (cold not hot) that lasts long but doesn’t sting was using all natural mint lip balm! Burts bees specifically c:

Firstly thank you, even if it’s all a message says I love to hear feedback on the blog!

And secondly, very nice tip! Thank you – I love tips, give me more people!

If you do use something like bengay, icy hot, tiger balm, deep heat in the UK, or any menthol rub, remember you can always mix it with lotion and dilute it down to start with. And then, when you can cope with more, discover your masochistic side and rub it right on your clit and arsehole.

The beauty is, once the pain starts you can’t do anything to stop it, you have to endure it. Welcome to masochism!