So I’m a big fan of using the wheel of denial. And today, I was using it happily and hornily when I spun “ruined orgasm”. The unfortunate part of this is I can’t have a ruined orgasm! I’ve tried and tried and tried but I just haven’t ever had one! Can you please help me and give me some device oh benevolent denial blogger? I don’t know what I’m doing wrong!

They do take some practise! I’d take some time off strict denial to just play around with them, but I find a build up to it, and then stopping, a couple of times when anything more would take you over the edge, and then the third or fourth time just push yourself over and stop all stimulation, will make it more intense. 

Really, just this week a girl who thought she had no success with ruined orgasms ended up in tears after  I gave her a couple of those. It can be pretty brutal, I warn you now.

More info here:

http://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/post/119782256818/i-wanted-to-ask-because-i-didnt-know-you-could

and lots more here:

http://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/search/ruined+orgasms