Regarding the lesbian vs. wlw thing. I’m bisexual. I have male and female play partners. I have male and female sex partners. I’ve never heard of the term “wlw” and I’m perfectly happy to be called a leabian when seen with a female partner. Its what I am in that moment and no word is going to acurately describe how I look for male play partners but female sexpartners perfectly. I am what I am and if I allow no person to changr that no word is going to either.