Maria, part 1. Dear James, hello. I’ve discovered your blog recently and want to say big thank you to you for your wonderful job here, i’m enjoying it a lot! Im writing in answer to a lady, who feels terrible after orgasms etc. I’m 28 and have never been in relationship. Its actually my bigest dream in the world – to meet someone who will truly want me as a person, cause all the guys i met only wanted sex from me and my heart has been broken for bunch of times.

So i’ve been depressed my whole life about it, but recently i’ve decided i dont want to depend my well being on another person and being single im just enjoying my body, masturbating almost every day reading your blog or else) It feels good and i really wish VV, i believe thats her name, would start to enjoy herself by her own! 

Thank you Maria,that’s very helpful!

I am going to try to tackle the whole ‘how to find a guy and a good dom’ topic in much more detail on the gentlemandom.com tumblr I’m still filling out – and everyone’s experience and tips on it are most welcome.

https://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/post/170225444303/hey-james-heres-a-question-for-your-followers-as