Last night I found myself in the depths of your blog for the first time. I was so fascinated by the concept of denial as a whole, and also incredibly jealous. As you’ve encountered I’m one of those women who can’t orgasm, and so when you linked to Brand New In Box, it was a massive epiphany.

To be face to face with what you are. To realize that you’ve come across your undoing, and all it did was make you wetter.

It was the most turned on I’ve ever been, which made it so much more beautifully agonizing. I woke up, and I was still on this high. I have to go TA a class soon, I had work to get done for it. I didn’t. I edged to your blog instead. I don’t know how I’m going to sit in front of 80 freshman for two hours like this. 

I made an account. I’m here. I surrender. This is where I belong. Where do I start? 

Welcome home.

An ‘epiphany’! That makes me so happy.

I’m currently writing a 30 day denial programme for those starting out but you know what, I hadn’t thought to build in elements for those with anorgasmia, but I’ll be sure to now. 

Keep watching the blog for more details soon!

James