I’ve only just come across your blog, and I must say I absolutely love it Sir. While the idea of orgasm denial has intrigued me for the longest time, I’ve only recently actually attempted it. What I’ve found to be the problem, especially with edging is that even though I manage to stop touching myself in time, and I don’t rub/grind against anything, my body seems to cool down for a little while and then usually after 10 seconds or so the orgasm still hits me. Any advice would be great, Sir.

That’s relatively unusual, and the obvious advice is just learn to stop a bit earlier, but I also suspect a lot of it is to do with how you’re breathing and holding tension in your body. That you let the pleasure build up, and will probably hold your breath and tense your core muscles, and even as you stop rubbing, when you release that tension you orgasm.

So, try keeping your breathing steadier, in through your nose, out through your mouth, all the way to the edge, and make a concious effort to stay relaxed, and let me know if that helps.