I’ve just found your blog & I’m so in love already. For a couple weeks now, I’ve been poking around tumblr about orgasm denial since I gave up masturbating for lent, but nothing has been such a resource as well as nice porn like your blog has ? Right now I have biofreeze (very similar to icyhot) on my clit, labia, and asshole as well as a crotch rope and I am so, so wet, but I have seen references to a knot over the clit a few times, could you go into more detail about that?

I can indeed, but it’s pretty much what it says. If you’re wearing a crotch rope you can add a knot, or several, to increase the stimulation it gives you.

The classic is a simple knot right against your clit:

See a great tutorial on it (this uses a thicker rope than my step by step crotch rope instructions on the dutchy.com:

https://www.theduchy.com/standard-crotch-rope/

Also here’s a video from Crash Restraint where you can see how you’d add a knot in (although they don’t) before the final tie off at the back:

If you use a thinner rope you can add multiple smaller knots that’ll ride over your clit as you shift around. 

Similarly, I like a big knot made at the entrance to your pussy, and also your asshole can be fun (but not very practical if you’re sitting a lot)

Great for suspension though 😉