Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denialis it normal to ruin after a ruined orgasm? my daddy just ruined me for the first time and it was unexpected that I ended up crying. January 29, 2016October 18, 2019 by jamesfod I think you meant to say ‘cry’ after a ruined orgasm and yep, it’s a sign you did it really well. Good girl. Anonymouscryingfemale orgasm denialruined orgasms