Good question – short answer, when we guess she’s ready, but I’d think 15-16. We’d probably give her a lovehoney gift voucher so she can have as much privacy about it as possible.
That also reminds me I got asked this some time back:
At what age would you tell your daughter about the world of BDSM? Or would you rather let her discover it for herself?
I don’t really know. It depends what kind of teen she grows up into. We’re very open about talking about sex as a family but it will get more awkward I’m sure. So it’ll probably be mostly letting her discover it for herself while having a kink positive environment when things come up on TV etc.