I saw youve mentioned oragel in response to the girl about only being able to touch a numb clit and I would absolutely recommend it! I did it, and wound up being incredibly frustrated for about 20 minutes as I struggled to get any kind of sensation out of it but I will warn if she isnt allowed to ruin its not a good idea because when it wears off, it is a rather sudden occurrence (for me anyway) and all that built up pleasure I didn’t feel suddenly hit me all at once and I ruined worse than I ever have before, and then forced myself to go to sleep a squirming dripping mess.