I was watching porn with my legs spread wide last night but didn’t touch myself at all, I was so incredibly horny and I feel like I orgasmed. I felt satisfied afterwards but I didn’t touch myself at all or grind on anything. I want to be aching and frustrated- not satisfied!! What can I do??

Congratulations, you’re one of the small minority of women who can orgasm without any stimulation at all. This would be great news were you not a tease and denial addict.

See if you can do it again, it might be a one time thing you don’t have to worry about much. Otherwise you’ll have to just be careful not to get yourself into that state.

If you have a partner I’d try experimenting with predicament – tie you up and say ‘if you don’t cum without touching within the next 30 minutes I’m going to coat a dildo with menthol rub and slide it in you, for example – having to do it under pressure will be a different experience altogether.