I think I like reading about denial more than actually being denied. I’ve tried denial with a partner, and it was really hot, and now alone, and that is hot too, but maybe… not hot enough to keep it up? I feel really bad about because I do like being denied short term, and having my pussy punished hard, but maybe I’m not a real denial slut. Quite a sad realisation: I actually prefer cumming. I feel like a disappointment.

Dear Anon,

Life is too short to feel disappointed about what you like and don’t like. 

Denial is fantastic, but cumming is incredible too. It’s like you’re getting disappointed by having TWO cakes to enjoy when you fancy it instead of one.

If you fancy a little challenge try denial for a bit, but don’t feel bad about just enjoying reading about it either. Frankly it can make your orgasms even hotter as you imagine all those being denied and you get to cum. I love that too.

It’s totally okay to enjoy denial, but not be a denial slut. So stop worrying about it and just enjoy whatever works for you!