I just wanted to let you know that your blog inspired me to have my first self-induced, purposefully ruined orgasm. I tend to pride myself on being a top, but I decided to try it and was surprised by how… intense it was. I was surprised by the emotional/mental effect it had on me. It’s been a long time since anything struck me that way, as edging and whatnot are all part of my standard routine. So, thank you!

You are so welcome! Thank you for the lovely feedback!

It can also really add to your edging experience in two ways. Firstly it lets you push yourself closer to the edge without worrying that ‘if you go over you’ve failed’ because you can ruin it instead and it not only punishes you for going over but also for most, will leave you just as horny (after a bit of recovery time).

Secondly, it gives you another option in how to finish your edging, it’s no longer simply cum or don’t cum… a proper ruin can be used to add that extra bit of variety.