i just thought you’d love to hear this- i’m w/ a girl right now who’s just starting to come to terms with being bi. sometimes she gets overwhelmed due to anxiety and internalized homophobia- and thats a serious thing and she deserves utmost care working through it- but this means she occasionally stops us in the middle of sex for the night. such as just as i’m about to come. im not frustrated (emotionally!) at all, of course.. she deserves the world and it honestly lets me enjoy it even more ;)