Firstly, well done, three weeks is brilliant! You should be very proud.
Secondly, you’re learning to love denial more than the quick fix of an orgasm. That’s beautiful. It’s about thinking big, do you really want that short, minute of two of pleasure at the cost of this wonderful, ongoing feeling of being so sexy and horny and feeling so good? No, it doesn’t sound like it.
Don’t cum, not yet, not for as long as you can stand in fact.
You’ll know when you need to cum, it isn’t now. There’s more to discover yet!
To cum, or not to cum, that is the question
Whether ‘tis nobler in the mind to suffer
the messy mons of outrageous edging
or to take arms against a sea of leaking,
and so by cumming, end them.
To rub, to cum no more,
and by cum to say we end the ache
and the thousand tormented shocks
that our soft flesh is heir to,
‘tis a consumation devoutly to be wished.
To rub, to edge,
to edge perchance to dream;
ay, there’s the rub;
for in that edge what dreams may come
when we have shuffled over that final edge,
must give us pause…