I had the most glorious phone sex and it’s all thanks to you! I’m a pansexual female, for some background, and my only physical sexual experience is me giving oral to another female. I’ve had phone sex before, with my friend domming me, but I’ve never really given any instruction to someone else. Well, I was jokingly being domminate with one of my friends and the other mentioned how she had been sexually frustrated. I called her and began just flirting (1/?)

I called her and began just flirting with her. Telling her how I would touch her, tie her up. Kiss her and tease her and bite her. And just have her beg for me. Then I gave her a moment to relax and light some candles (it was her first time ever masturbating) and as she did I scrolled to find your first denial task. I told her she was going to have to listen and began reading it. I tweaked it every so often but read both part 1 and 2. Her voice was beautiful.

Her voice was breathy and airy and she was whimpering and it turned me on so much. I actually followed along to the instructions as well after a while. It was pretty hard to keep my voice smooth. I was, however, very tempted to tell her to stop and to not orgasm because she never had before. I was tempted to tell her that I might let her orgasm when we meet up (she does not live near me but we are planning to get an apartment together).

I was so tempted to keep her ‘Brand New In Box’ but her voice was just so beautiful! And the way my name sounded on her lips? Making small whimpers and barely able to even speak. I let her have her first orgasm, I ended up having my own. And honestly, I probably would have been shit at domming if you hadn’t had that instructional. So thank you, James. (Dont worry this probably won’t be our last phone call and next time I won’t let her orgasm) 

♡First time caller

Oh first time caller, you make me so happy! Thank you for this, it’s wonderful.

And well done, that’s such a smart, and brave thing to do. What an incredible first experience you’ve given her! Getting such positive experiences of masturbation, sex and kinky stuff is the perfect start to a happy and fulfilling sex life so I hope you’re proud. You’ve changed her life in one night.

At this point though, just a bit of advice. Before you do any more, talk it through. Dissect it a bit with her, in a minimally sexy way. Find out what she liked best, what she didn’t like as much. But also take the opportunity to talk about where you might go with it.

Learning to talk openly about sex is as important a lesson as having good experiences edging and masturbating. But if this is her first time even masturbating she’ll still have loads of questions. You may not have the answers, that’s okay, just talking it all through with each other and committing to keep communicating is what’s important. Whether this turns into just friends who are totally open about sex, through to denial buddies, or more – don’t let it happen by accident, talk it through, all the time, as well as having lots of fun.

Of course a good friend would be obligated to tell her, ‘You know how good cumming felt? Here’s a secret, not cumming is even better!’ 😉 You will, of course, have to lead by example.

And do feel free to send me asks or even message me for advice. That’s what I’m here for.

Well done again, you get a gold star.

James

For those wondering, I assume she’s talking about this task, although there’s actually three parts to it

http://edging.space/post/117626700838/guided-masturbation-an-orgasm-denial-task

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