Hi James wife is working on the advent calendar. We are debating as to what constitutes as a proper edge. I seem to recall something about counting to 100. Could you please elaborate! Anon please

Definitions differ, but for me ‘an edge’ is simply one session of masturbation without cumming. Simple as that. I don’t count each time you ‘bounce’ on brink of an orgasm an edge, I call that ‘riding the edge’ and it still only counts as one.

If you’re wanting to rack up numbers for a task like ‘you can cum after 100 edges’ then I’d add a rule like ‘an edge only counts if you haven’t edged for five or ten minutes’ so forcing them to stop, or calm back down a bit before going for it again, and that then limits it to a few an hour and makes them take it slowly.

If you want to narrow things down further then you can have a ‘soft edge’ which is where you don’t even get close to cumming, on purpose. Either because it’s just a ‘quickie’ or because they keep going over if they edge too hard.

Which brings us to a ‘hard edge’ which is the opposite, it’s where you take yourself right the brink of orgasm, as close as you can without going over.

I hope that helps, good question, thank you!

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