Hi James! So I’m doing JuNo and it’s the first time I’ve ever committed to denial. I’ve done some edging sessions before but usually only for a couple hours. But for JuNo, I’ve put away my vibe (strong electric toothbrush), and am only edging with my fingers or a pillow. And oh. My. God. I can’t cum because I can barely even get to the edge. It’s so torturous. It’s going to be a long month. -Cristina

That sounds like a very good plan, Cristina. Enforcing ‘soft edges’ like that is a really smart way to do it if you can’t hold the edge very well using vibes etc. But I do encourage you to build up, make it more intense as you go. 

Worst case scenario you slip over the edge and ruin the orgasm by pulling away instantly (add a quick pussy smack for extra insurance). But as I’m saying all the time, find what works best for you. This is a marathon, not a sprint. Starting out nice and easy is a very good plan!

We look forward to hearing how you get on.

James