Hi James, I’m not new to edging and I absolutely Love it. Recently I edged non-stop for 5hrs. I was so desperate and my clit was so sore after but I loved the feeling of being right on the edge and forcing myself to stay on it. I also edged the next day and I was still so achy. I like playing with my clit until it’s swollen and throbbing then doing it again the next day even rougher to make the ache stay. I love edging and hurting my little clitty more and more. What do you think, too much?

Honestly that’s really fucking hot, but unlike your vagina which is literally designed to take a pounding, your poor little clit is a sensitive little soul. So do be a little careful you don’t over do it. Definitely if you’ve done it for a few days as you describe, force yourself onto ‘no touch’ for day perhaps, which could be just as much of a mind fuck, so that it has time to recover.

For a quick route to the pain side of things, you could try some ‘snaps’ Getting a rubber band, stretching it between your finger and thumb on one hand then pulling it back and letting it hit your clit with the other. Though that’ll hurt more, it’s a sharp, and instant pain, and probably less damaging than just rubbing or grinding away on it for hours.

Remember with all this stuff though, we want it to be a positive force for you. Edging is really addictive, especially at first. As we see in lots of the JuNO journals. However, after a while you do get used to it and it becomes far more manageable (it really does, I promise). 

But, as with anything, if it’s having a negative impact on your life, work, relationships, take a break, have a ruin or an orgasm, clear your head, get a bit of perspective and then if you’re feeling good about it, get back into it in a more measured way