Hi James! I’m fairly new to edging and denial in general. I recently thought I’d only edge until I’m back from my holiday which is in 7 days. I’ve now been edging for 3 days and I’m a very horny and wet mess. Do you think I should set a number of edges for every day? Thanks. And love your blog. – K.

If you’re new to it then that’s ambitious to go that long so don’t put too much pressure on yourself. But hell, yeah let’s do this.

Three edges a day is my initial recommendation. One before you get up or in the shower in the morning, one during the day, often a ‘quickie’ depending on circumstances, and then a long one, often helped with Tumblr, last thing in bed.

If you want a bit more scope to mess up then read up on ruined orgasms and make sure you do that instead of a proper cum, and that’ll help you get through and meet your target.

Good luck, and tell us how you got on!

James