Hi James, Idk if you can answer this question but lately when I’m edging the only way for me to stop myself going over is to squirt a little bit (or sometimes a lot). It’s like I have to release the pressure somehow. I’m mostly fine with it but I am a little concerned that I have so little control over it. Do you or your followers have any tips on how to not squirt if you don’t want to? Thanks and have a great day!

That’s a new one on me but I can see the logic of it. There is a very definite pressure build up that increases pleasure for some women (just like some love edging with a full bladder) and so letting some of that out just takes you off the edge.

If you don’t want to squirt then you have a few options, avoid g-spot stimulation, that is what brings that pressure on fastest for most women, make sure you go to the loo beforehand and start with an empty bladder, as that definitely adds to it if it’s not, and finally take a pause when it’s getting too much, and go and wee, and that’ll pee out the fluid build up and you can start over.