Lovely to hear from a couple as always. This is genuinely a tricky one, as orgasms are fabulous, just not quite having them is even better. But also there’s a real joy in giving someone an orgasm we don’t want to deny him.

If you’re really brave (or stupid), you could suggest he reads my very popular post on Post Orgasm Torture for women. That would be a new take on it for both of you. 

Alternatively, ask him to mind fuck you, tell him you want to be ruined, that you want your orgasms to be ruined ones, to keep you horny and desperate. But I warn you, it’s strangely addictive, ruining someone’s orgasm, he may find he prefers it. Be careful what you wish for…

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