Hi James, I just recently got brave enough to share with my partner that I’m into orgasm denial. I’m currently on day 5 of a 10-day denial period we agreed on, and I’ve been edging all day, but I just had an accidental ruin. What do I do? Does this mean I need to start over?

Nah, relax! Just tell them, and maybe suggest it might need a ‘funishment’, I’d suggest a bit of a spanking mixed with edging (http://edging.space/post/155967856463/this-is-the-perfect-start-to-a-sensual-spanking) or maybe losing panties for a day or a crotch rope. 

Denial is about the journey, not the destination so unless the thought of them saying, ‘oh no, back to day one’ makes you drip (which isn’t unlikely) just keep it fun and simple and push on for victory. 

Let us know how you get on!