Hi. I wondered, what do you call someone who loves seeing women/people in general denied, and/or loves denying women/people in general? I mean, we’ve got denial bitch. But that’s not necessarily the person doing the denying. Get my drift? Like Lee’s and Ler’s. Denial slut and Denial… ?

Okay, let’s get some denial definitions out there:

Denial Slut – someone who loves the practise of edging and orgasm denial (gender neutral)
Denial sub – don’t use this much but I’d apply it to someone for whom orgasm denial is the foundation of their wider submission to another
Denial Bitch – someone who gets off on others being denied and cums to denial captions and porn (usually a denial slut in waiting… trust me, it’s a slippery slope)
Denial Dom/Domme – someone who actively denies someone else and is in control of their orgasms – they don’t have to be dom over other areas, but often are
Denial buddies – two or more ‘friends with benefits’ who deny and tease each other
Keyholder – holds the keys to a chastity belt or cock cage – usually denial dom/me by default

Definitions will surely vary, and it might be you slip between several categories when you feel like it. But that’s probably a good starting point.

Let me know what I missed and your thoughts in the notes