I love it. Some claim that non consensual sex (which has been top of the favourite fantasies for ever) was becoming less popular but when I ask any woman ‘what’s the fantasy you hope I don’t ask to hear about’ (great question) it’s almost always that in some form or another. Or dogs. You’d be surprised by the number of dogs, anyway, moving on…

They used to claim rape fantasies were so popular because it was the one context where a woman was allowed to experience sex and she couldn’t be guilty about it because it wasn’t her choice (I know, all kinds of issues with that). But the guilt thing has gone down now as a society but still this remains. 

I think it’s perhaps more to do with the loss of control being so hot as a fantasy (and we are just talking about fantasies here people, let’s be very clear on that).

The message continues to be though, my lovely followers, if you fantasise about rape or any kind of non-consensual sex, it’s AMAZINGLY common, and nothing to feel guilty about.

Anyway, thank you anon! That’s one hell of a way to lose your virginity.

Share your fantasies here (they don’t have to be your darkest one, that’s just a forfeit on a wheel of denial). We love hearing about anything that gets you off!



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