Not spamming at all, don’t worry. 8 edges a day is a lot depending on your schedule. I try to fit in half that amount on a normal day. I try edging in the morning, either in bed or the shower, twice somewhere in the day and then once again before bed. That’s plenty to start with already 🙂 The effects of ruining an orgasm are different for everyone, so I can’t really tell you what will happen. For me, they’re a mix between frustrating and addicting. Ruining your pleasure like that is an emotional rollercoaster. You have all those endorphins still rushing through your body and in some cases it makes me cry, angry or even hornier than before. Mostly a combination of those. It’s quite the mind trip.