Nina, I think I love you already. Look, if you’re cumming in your sleep let’s just rejoice at how awesome that is and not worry about it. if you’re sleep masturbating you can prevent it by wearing a couple of pairs of tight panties to make more of a barrier, even a pad in them too. But for those I’ve known do this it tended to stop as they got more used to denial. So just roll with it and let’s see what happens!
Remember, it’s supposed to be difficult. Hard is GOOD, easy makes you weak. If you want to learn self control you have to put yourself through things that test you.
Welcome to denial! For those who LIKE it hard, because hard is so much more rewarding.