Well congratulations, I’m very proud of you! A suction cup dildo is totally awesome.
As a virgin just make sure you go slowly. Don’t get all hyper about it and just shove it in. Take a LOT of time warming up, get yourself really wet and ideally add some lube too, you can never have too much lube. The dildo is a silicone one so avoid silicone lube, but a good water based one will be great.
Personally, I’d really have fun teasing yourself, deny yourself the full thing for a while, lick it, suck it, rub the tip up and down your lips. Pretend it’s a lover teasing you, making you beg for cock.
Then, just the tip. If you’ve not done much finger penetration either then you’ll likely have an intact hymen that you need to take into consideration. See more here
It might be sore the first few times, but very soon it will feel amazing, and quite likely it will even the first time, so just listen to your body and don’t over do it.
I’d encourage you to share the first time with your Sir, it’s such an honour to go through that first time with someone, he’ll really appreciate it. But if you want to go slow and try it yourself first, that’s great too.
Do all the above just holding it in your hand, then once you’ve got more comfortable fucking yourself… find something to stick it to. A flat headboard, the floor, an upside down plate on the floor, a wardrobe, against the side of the bed (great as you can get your feet under with some beds). Just look up the suction cup dildo tag for lots of ideas.
Again, go slow, give your pussy time to get used to being pounded. But that’s literally what it was designed for so if you’re enjoying it, build up speed and energy.
Another reason I recommend that dildo is for most women it’ll fit beautifully inside them – so try that, wearing tight panties and pants over the top – you won’t believe how sexy and naughty it feels to walk around stuffed, the dildo fucking you with every step – sitting and grinding on it without anyone knowing what a good little slut you are. You’ll love it!
I hope that helps. Be a good girl and edge yourself senseless until it arrives, it’s always fun not being quite sure when it’ll come. And let us know how you get on!
I hope that helps,
James