hey James how are you ? me and my bf/ master decided to give up my orgasms for lent and with plenty of edges and is amazing oral skills it’s already getting hard (which I love) but I also find that my frustration leads to cheeky remarks and moody/ brat behaviour, not all the time but especially after long edging sessions. I’m usually very respectful sub and wondered if this was just a side effect of my constantly needy achy hole dripping with denial ? thanks for your inspiration Natalie xx

Hi Natalie,

It can be a cause for brattiness, although if you’re just getting into it you’ll probably find your emotions settle a bit. 

But the main question is does he like it? I personally adore a bit of cheek in a sub and the whole respectful all the time thing gets a bit dry after a while. I mean, at the very least it gives us regular excuses to punish you, which means everyone wins, right?

Just talk to him about it and agree that if he isn’t enjoying it then either he can punish you or just a ‘Natalie, shut up’ would probably make you cream your panties. 

Yep, just like that.

Good girl.

James xx