But yeah, it’s good fun, been doing it for a long time. It’s called ‘mutual denial’
My wife isn’t dominant though, she’ll have fun ‘topping’ me, mostly with me tied up, but I’m always still ultimately in control – that’s what makes her feel safe to do it.
I think that kind of thing is healthy in a mature kinky relationship. I honestly worry when I hear a dom saying they can’t switch because it speaks to me more of their own insecurity than anything else, which isn’t a great place to be coming from.