I’m so glad it’s helpful. I think part of the reason I can write about denial is not only do I love inflicting it, but I absolutely can appreciate the benefits of receiving it too.
Old school BDSM can be very obsessed with putting you in a box, what you like, what you don’t, what you’re allowed to do, etc. Personally I like a more rounded approach of trying all kinds of things and seeing what feels good and is fun, and you can enjoy together.
GOOD STUFF INDEED