Hello James, I used to be addicted to my vibrator. I used it way too often, and my body didn’t know how to orgasm without the delightful buzzing on my clit. Denial has completely changed that. My fingers are my favorite toy, with my pillow coming in a close second now. I’m always so horny that even a good ass fucking gets me to the edge. I’m not allowed to cum, but the point is I could… I almost feel bad for that lonely little bullet vibe collecting dust on my shelf. -belle

Hi Belle,

What a lovely little report, I’m so glad you are rediscovering edging ‘au naturel’. It’s really important not to get overly reliant on one style of masturbation and particularly not on toys as it can definitely be a problem when you come to share the experience with someone else. 

Save the vibe for treats, a reward for achieving a target you’ve sent yourself. If you use it sometimes then don’t then it’s another way of denying yourself.

Then again, you could always give it away to someone else… and think about them enjoying themselves cumming with your toys while you just edge with your fingers.

Good girl.