For years I have been edging with my partner without even knowing there was a name to it. She would get me very close to orgasm then would not allow me to cum (I always have to ask permission). Over the years I have learned to control myself more and can hold back for quite some time even while being stimulated. Just recently came across this Tumblr site and wow has it increased my libido. I’m 41 but I feel as horny as an 18 year old. I’m almost disappointed when I’m allowed to cum. Wow!