Dear James, I am a fairly shy submissive. I’ve never had a dom before and I really like public challenges. As a little self denial I am wearing a homemade crotch rope (a lacy thong worn the wrong way) at my parents’ house. I wanna make it worse, please, what should I do?

Find a menthol rub like deep heat or icy hot. Dilute it with some lotion. Rub it into your clit and asshole, and breasts.

Try not to leave wet spots where you sit.

Good girl.