Congratulations, it’s amazing isn’t it! I love it when people discover the reality is even hotter than the fantasy!
I know we talk a lot about getting wet but what that actually means for an individual woman varies enormously. It’s partly physical, vagina’s vary as much as penises do, and you’ve seen how varied THEY are on Tumblr I’m sure.
Stress, birth control, other medication can all dry you up. Or it may be you just need to spend longer playing, and use toys to get your pussy responding more. Or it may just be you’re naturally not prone to get wet (but worth asking a doctor if you dare, they aren’t embarrassed, it’s just you).
But the immediate solution is to use lube! Lube is glorious stuff. My favourite by far is silicon lube which lasts forever (but isn’t recommended for use with silicon toys, although GOOD quality silicon toys and lubes are fine together nowadays). But good water based ones are great too.
Often using a little to get yourself going with toys or fingers will be enough to kick start you juicing up yourself. But if you don’t, worry not. Your arousal is not measure by how wet you are, but by how you feel.
Frankly while the fantasy is hot, having very messy panties day after day is abit of a chore.
Of course that’s why no panties and a skirt are the preferred outfit for denial slut trainees… Saves on the washing.
Buy your lubes at Lovehoney and they pay me (a tiny amount) but it’s kind of hot thinking as you spread it on yourself, I was part of that too, isn’t it. (Even hotter when it’s a dildo sliding in you.)