Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hi James, over a year ago I remember reading an ask from a girl who wanted to be more “dirty” (or something like that) while being single. Amongst your suggestions was that while she’s in the shower she should use thick white body washes to replicate cum. A year later, I’m still doing this and I still feel dirty. So this is just an appreciation message ;)

OMG this is so great. I’d totally forgotten that advice! Thank you! I mean, if […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

i follow you both here and on bdsmble but fot that website is so hard to use. search option is full of things spam tagged that arent actually what your looking for, so your still the only good denial blog ive been able to follow there! hows a horny denial slut supposed to get daily tasks and be told how their allowed to touch when everythings just spam porn there and blocked here! hah! love ya as always, -sav

Hi Sav, Yes, I know. BDSMLR is getting better but it’s slow and tagging’s not […]

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

i just thought you’d love to hear this- i’m w/ a girl right now who’s just starting to come to terms with being bi. sometimes she gets overwhelmed due to anxiety and internalized homophobia- and thats a serious thing and she deserves utmost care working through it- but this means she occasionally stops us in the middle of sex for the night. such as just as i’m about to come. im not frustrated (emotionally!) at all, of course.. she deserves the world and it honestly lets me enjoy it even more ;)

Talk about finding the cloud’s silver lining. Well done both of you!

Blog Post, Female Orgasm Denial

Hello When I first started masturbating, I always used a vibe and for the longest time I didn’t feel the need to change that. Today I still much prefer a vibe to my hands. The problem is, I love to edge. But I tried ruining at the start of the year. And you know what? You’re 100% right. They’re addicting. Most of the time, when I try to edge, I end up ruining. I know I should stop using my vibe, that’d help, but it just feels so good to ruin. I just wanted to share this with you.

If you love ruins that’s okay, in fact it’s great. But make it feel like […]