and I also got this from @dripdripdrippykitty
I’m a trans guy and I found your paragraph actually really hot and helpful. I would actually like to know what part of the paragraph is construed as “fetishising” as I’ve read it several times and can’t understand it being seen that way. You simply gave him options, which is what you were asked for. You clearly didn’t mean to offend.
Thank you guys, that’s so appreciated!