About the trans thing, I’m a trans guy, and it didn’t make me uncomfortable at all. I know some of the things wouldn’t work for me, but that’s all it was. I wasn’t offended or anything, because I know everyone’s experience is different, and those things could work really well for trans guys who are into the more degrading part of denial. It’s all about figuring out what you like and letting other people like what they do. So, don’t be discouraged, I think you did great with the answer. -Levi