I never completed that part of this tumblr, because I never really expected to share it with others the way I am now.
I do love my little quote, it was very much the point of this blog when making it. Be proud of who I am and how far I have come, but also don’t be afraid to learn and grow and change. I felt like I had a good “base” when starting this blog, a good idea of who I am and what I want. I just needed to learn how to communicate that.
I’m getting much better at that now, although I’m still far from perfect. Talking to others has been really good for me, and finally starting this journal. I feel like I’m finally using this blog for it’s intended purpose. I hope to continue writing even after this month.
So I guess I’ll tell a little about myself here. I’m a 27 year old female from Michigan. I had to make up a name to start this (I won’t use my own, only because I liked the cute little tumblr tradition of sharing photos when reaching follower milestones. I had to choose, name or photos.) so that name is Elizabeth, only because it’s my favorite name. I always said if I wrote a book that would be the main character’s name, so this is kinda fitting. I just picked up the nickname Sag and I am totally cool with that, too.
Other things about me: I’m highly demisexual. I have to feel a connection to someone to have sex or sexual feelings. I’ve found I at least have to view them as a friend and have some sort of spark, or it just doesn’t work for me. I wish I could go out and slut it up, but I don’t think that will ever be me.
I also have really high standards. I used to feel bad about this, but I don’t anymore. I know what I want, what I’m looking for, and if I feel a spark or not. I’m totally down to have conversations with people about sex (that’s seriously one of my favorite things ever) but don’t be surprised if I brush you off if you’re too sexual towards me initially.
Some other kinda fun things: I’m obviously a Sagittarius, and I have a Pisces moon. If I like you I will most definitely ask you what your sign is lol. I’m an INFJ/P and my love language is giving/receiving gifts. You might think those tests are bullshit, and that’s cool, but I like them.
Some more personal things I have decided to share: I did say on here that my job is to sell sex toys and my aspiration is to become a sex therapist. I probably wouldn’t have shared such personal things, but I feel like they directly affect my view on sexuality. I’ve also shared that I’m a mom. Mostly because there are times when that’s going to affect my edging, and I would rather just say that than be all mysterious about it. I have priorities that are much higher than any of this. This is still fun, but I’m no way does it come first in my life. So be respectful if I don’t respond right away.
Some more things about my sexuality: I am bisexual, but heteroromantic. That means I like girls, and I love having sex with them, but I want a relationship with a man. I know that might rub some the wrong way, it bothered me for a long time, too, but it is who I am. I am very submissive when it comes to men, but I like to top women. I wouldn’t call myself a switch exactly because I am in no way a dominant. I can barely handle my own responsibilities, I most definitely don’t want to be responsible for someone else.
I call myself monogamish. If I’m having sexual conversations with you there’s a big chance I’m not having them with anyone else at that time. Although I love the idea of being shared and possibly sharing within a relationship I am comfortable enough in.
I consider myself a sapiosexual, but I really love down to earth people. If you’re smart you don’t have to prove it to me by trying to make yourself sound like it.
I am most definitely an experimentalist. I want to try everything once. Obviously I have my preferences on where to start, but I would love to have a partner one day that wants to experiment with me.
Lastly, I’m a masochist. This one is difficult to explain because there is such a spectrum. I wouldn’t consider myself a painslut, and when I’m not aroused my pain tolerance is very little. I love bruises, but I never like the idea of breaking skin. I’m crazy when it comes to health and safety, so there’s a lot I won’t do, but I do love pain. So much so that it’s difficult to get off without at least a small amount of pain. And denial is really making me crave having someone kick my ass.
Alright, that’s it for now. Back to our regularly scheduled porn and denial posts 🌸
A great expanded bio from one of our most prolific JuNO Journalers