blueknight103:
Month: October 2019
hi James, quick question. do you think aiming for a month is too much for my first time edging? should i cut it down to a week? also, im edging myself, any tips on how to get myself to stop just on the edge? I’ve tried edging a few times but always mess up and allow mysterious an orgasm. thanks!
Yeah, it’s a bit overambitious. The trouble is you’re setting yourself up for failure whereas […]
do you have any tips to help with self-control? i usually can’t edge more than 3 or 4 times before i accidentally push myself over and it ruins the whole experience because i just feel disappointed in myself
Stop at three. Seriously. Three edges and you’re done. No more touching for at least […]
I was meant to have a full orgasm but my mind made me have only a ruined one. I’m so desperate and now I have to go to school.
You are your mind, sweetie. Just own it. ‘Ruined orgasms are all I’m allowed, and […]
Hi James, I was wondering if you accept anon photo submissions either here or on your BDSMLR acct? (Is that possible?) As part of my denial, I’ve been exploring clothing as a way of getting into the submissive mindset. I dress pretty modestly in public, but the thought of wearing something really revealing and having my body on display is a huge turn on for me. I took a pic the other night while wearing some of my newest outfit purchases and would love to share with you and your followers. -?
Absolutely. As long as I’m convinced it’s genuine and from you, always happy to indulge […]
Hi James, Idk if you can answer this question but lately when I’m edging the only way for me to stop myself going over is to squirt a little bit (or sometimes a lot). It’s like I have to release the pressure somehow. I’m mostly fine with it but I am a little concerned that I have so little control over it. Do you or your followers have any tips on how to not squirt if you don’t want to? Thanks and have a great day!
That’s a new one on me but I can see the logic of it. There […]
ebrilblog: After edging class at the denial academy everyone was allowed a nap.
The dinner party would be so much simpler without the ‘no touch’ clips but she’d […]
fawnstarflare: evilqueen1969: “Umm whats that uhh choker on your neck?” “It’s not a choker it’s […]