Oh no, I was away this weekend and I missed it. I’m so sorry. Don’t […]
Month: October 2017
Hey James! I’m having this issue where the line between edging, ruining, and cumming are unclear. Sometimes I’ll go over the edge for a ruin but there are no contractions or anything, but when I go to touch again, my clit is super sensitive as if I had just had a full orgasm. Am I broken?
No, you’re perfect. But really, we’re humans, not machines. Our responses change and adapt and […]
Oh, and the question! I forgot! Do you have any tips for me to get back on track again as a denial slut James? Saylan
Too late I answered already! The advice is don’t worry about it. Have fun with […]
Hi James! I just wanted to share with all the edging lady’s out here that I just had -the- best orgasm ever! After dabbling with denial myself I am now denying my partner! And he just found a special new spot in me whilst fingering which made me cum so hard I can still feel it! He used to suck at fingering but he’s getting so much better! I’m scared I won’t want to get back into denial myself! Love, Saylan
Woo hoo! Good work Saylan, and your partner’s magic fingers. Denial or not, the most […]
Wanted to piggy back on the faked orgasms while on denial thing. I’m super into denial but really specifically do not want it to include anyone else irl, even my husband. I’m not a sub and am probably the more dominant one in our relationship, and denial is something I do just for me. I don’t wanna be the No Fun Brigade b/c I do totally understand the theme and the fun of your blog (longtime follower :P) but for me, involving others would spoil the fun and the challenge.
This is totally okay too and thanks for the alternative experience! It’s all good! Your […]
Heya, I get if you’re not comfortable answering this, but would you hold it against a sub for having self harm scars (or even some fresher cuts)? Would you still play with them? What would you do?
Goodness no, I wouldn’t hold it against them. And it’s always okay to talk about. […]
Hi James, I just broke my self-denial record (55 days!) with doing at least three edges per day (5 on the weekends). Originally I only wanted to go for two months, but after reading through your blog (and edging many, many times to it) I’d like to know if you think I should hold out for longer. Thanks, Hannah
You know what Hannah, that’s amazing. I’m so delighted. Good girl! Yes, you can cum. […]
Hi, I’m Catherine and I made the mistake of listening to cals curse 6 months ago. I’ve been listening to it everyday since and haven’t had an orgasm in 5 months. I’m trying but I…. can’t. It’s humiliating and so far I kept my pride and haven’t asked anyone…..but please let me cum. I’m constantly dripping now and have to change my panties a lot. So please just let this end and let me cum.
Oh Catherine, I feel so sorry for you. I can only imagine how horny and […]
What have you done to me? I’ve been denied for two months now, and last night my boyfriend was fucking me and told me I could orgasm if I want to and I said no! I like this feeling too much and I don’t want an orgasm to ruin that, I hate and love you for it
Now be a good girl and send him this if you haven’t: https://female-orgasm-denial.tumblr.com/post/160445894488/i-have-something-to-ask-you
Hello I love love your blog! Thank you for all your hard work. I’m not lying when I say orgasm denial has saved my marriage. Before I found your blog and started orgasm denial i was only having sex with my husband 3 times a year and i wasnt really into it. I would just masturbate and cum on my own and ignore him and he would get mad easily and we’d fight alot. But now im jumping him 24/7 and we never fight! Ty james! : ) -nicole
Dear Nicole, Thank you. It means so much to me to hear this. I know […]