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Hi James! I wanted to thank you for your blog. It (and you by extension) has recently helped me through a very rough time in my life. I’ve been dealing with a lot of mental health issues, a lot of which get in the way of motivation. Denial has been a way that I can self-motivate in a small but exceedingly rewarding way. Today, I finally worked through a major panic attack on my own effectively, which was the next milestone in my denial. Guess what I’m doing tonight! Seriously. Thank you so much

This is amazing, well done! I do think there is lots more to explore with […]

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Hi James! Thank you for running this wonderful blog. It is so refreshing to find a sex blog that empowers rather than degrades women, if that makes any sense. I wanted to pass along my experience to you. I stumbled upon your blog one day and decided to give orgasm denial a try. I tried on my own and failed miserably (could barely edge twice before coming) and then tried with doms I met on getdare, but no matter how determined I was, I couldn’t obey, I always came. ~ Leah 1/2

I got really upset with myself over my lack of discipline, so I stopped denial […]

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Hi James, I just ruined an orgasm for the first time. I built it up for about an hour before I went over the edge and I instantly stopped any stimulation. I’m very proud of myself, but I was wondering if it’s normal to feel pain? I felt a sharp pain that I can only describe as the feeling you get when you put pressure on a sprained ankle. If that’s normal then great, I’m a painslut anyway, but if it isn’t, what should I do? I don’t want to accidentally do damage when it isn’t necessary.

Hi Secrets! Well firstly good job on your first ruin, I’m proud of you too! […]

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Hi James, pastey here (thank you for the nickname!) I thought I’d bring you another update! So yesterday I was on my fifth edge when I accidentally went over and didn’t manage to ruin it! So as punishment last night i put toothpaste on my clit and then put myself on no-touch. So I woke up at like 3 this morning with my hands in my pants about to cum, I did manage to ruin it! Can you give a new challenge? I don’t have a Dom and would love someone to control what I do!

Hi Pastey! Lovely to hear from you again! So, I think it’s time for an […]

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I had a dream the other night where there were these pieces of clothing that would cause ruined orgasms on an 8-hour cycle. One piece of the clothing was 1 every 8 hours, 2 was every 4, 3 was every 2, etc to where 8 pieces meant one ruined orgasm every 3.75 minutes. They were beautiful pieces of clothing, but just regular every day items. (Socks, shoes, pants, shirt, hat, choker, purse, and a bracelet.) I was forced to wear all 8 by this crazy man who then coerced me into servicing a whole(C)

military regiment of his. He kept saying if I made them all cum 50 times […]