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Hi!! I just wanted to say thanks for your oral sex guide… You’d think that two lesbians would have that shit figured out but nope. It helped so much! We haven’t been having a lot of sex lately because my wife takes forever to come and I’d be in terrible pain afterwards…. But with your guide, I didn’t get so fatigued and was actually able to enjoy the entire act! So thank you again. -M

Thank you! You’re my message of the month (I just made that a thing). But […]

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Hi James, so I have more of a ‘general sex’ question. every time after I have penetrative sex with my boyfriend, I get extremely painfully sore. He does not fuck me *that* hard nor is he *that* big (no offense to him) and does a good job with foreplay i.e. I am usually wet and turned on by the time he’s inside me. It doesn’t hurt during but only after. I have no idea why and don’t know how to stop it. Do you have any advice?

Painful sex is all too common (10% of women experience it in a recent survey) […]

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Dear James, I rode the edge for half an hour. Never stopping, always touching, barely ever slowing down. It was so, so good. I wanted to go for sixty whole minutes. Riding the edge is so delicious. But then I felt myself tipping and there was no stopping it. So I ruined it. I felt the pityful orgasm try to come, and, to my surprise, wetness. Gushing. I squirted, James. For the first time in my life. And with a ruin. I wanted to let you know, after all it’s your blog that roped me into denial.

You are so very welcome! I’ve been away from Tumblr for a few days so […]