P.1 Hey, love your blog, longtime follower here.So sex with my boyfriend is pretty lame. Ive put up with it for over a year now and honestly i can’t be bothered anymore. Never had an orgasm during sex. I have had some from foreplay. But like 4times.

And the first time it happened was like 11months into being intimate with him. And even those were kinda lame. He was touching my clit so hard and even the orgasms weren’t that enjoyable. Problem is he thinks he’s fantastic in bed. 99% of the …

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I love edging while I’m mastrubating but the idea of someone else being in control of my orgasm seems so much more erotic could you please give me institutions for my next mastrubation session?

Wow, that’s seriously kinky… I thought I’d seen everything. Okay, institutions for your masturbation session… I’d start with something local, your local college might be a good one. Then, work your way up to a university. If you’re that way inclined you might try the …

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I’ve been seeing alot of things on Cal’s curse. Is it just for women or is there a men’s version also? If there is a guys version can you link it ?😳

Good question. Why don’t you listen to it and find out. Just… do it when you won’t be disturbed, get nice and comfy, use earphones, listen to it, two, maybe three times to really make sure you’ve done it properly.  You might want to try …

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Do you have any advice about how to better ride an edge? Like I see stuff about girls having to hold their edges and not cum even tho they’re still being touched, and that sounds really hot but idk how to do it! If I keep touching for long enough (without a pause/break) then I can’t hold back from cumming so I always have to take that break :( any advice?

So much of it is to do with your breathing, Learn to become more aware of it, and work on keeping it relaxed as you get to the edge. If you start holding your breath it’s likely to push you over. Beyond that, it’s a …

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Hey, i really want to try denial. I have wanted to try for so long, So i was wondering if you could tell me how many days i should do it and a punishment if i fail. Thank you 😊

Three days to start, five edge a day, one in the morning, one last thing at night, the other spread out when you can – and that’s a minimum. If you fail, you lose the right to panties, and have to do four days instead. …

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I got myself into denial after I found your blog. Honestly, it is the best. I am applying your advices for training my shy inexperienced girlfriend and it is going very good so far. I also post the milestones we are having her. So as a gratitude for your blog I am offering you a complete control over her clit for this night. Just tell me what to do and she is having this today.

Well thank you! I love to hear such nice feedback, and what a kind offer. I want you to edge her ten different ways, different methods, toys, places, etc. But the last one, is to be with your mouth. I find it’s the very best …

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So, I’ve recently realized I don’t know if I can cum. I know I can edge, but I’ve never felt my pussy pulse with release. I don’t feel relief after letting an edge go, I just feel nothing. I honestly don’t know if I’ve ever cum.

It sounds like you might be a ‘natural’, lucky girl.  Go and read this other blog I started with a friend for special girls like you and then come back and tell me what you actually want. http://brand-new-in-box.tumblr.com/ I even wrote a special story for …

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